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Hi I’m Alex Not on here for hookups Looking for a dom not just in the bedroom but also in day to day life I liked to be looked after but most of the time I’m just completely independent
SUBatomic (20) Straight Female
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  • BDSM
  • Bondage & Discipline
  • Casual Dating
  • Dom
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I like someone who can take control of the relationship but not in a toxic way just so I don’t have to make decisions and get anxious I can’t lie public stuff does get me going
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Sheffield
Me and my boyfriend are looking to adopted a pup to join our fun times, someone who is free to come and go and perhaps stay for a while, feel free to ask me questions I will explain more
jakepe1994 (29, 29) Straight Male, Straight Female
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We are a loving couple who loves to watch movies and cuddle a lot, we love gaming and day trips
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Sheffield
I'm 52 years old, living in the North Elmsall region. I described myself as a bottom but I want to tie guys to the bed and be dominant
Night train 69 (52) Gay Male
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I'm 52 years old, living in the North Elmsall region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 20 and 60 I have a slight disability and use crutches outside I'm also of large ..
UK, England: South Yorkshire, North Elmsall
I'm a mistress L luv be in charge
Mistress Margaret (51) Straight Female
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Friendly kinky. Playful as much possible. I like to hear moaning and groaning.
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Doncaster
I’m not a novice, but then again not a professional, I’m here to learn from all and anyone who wants to help and teach me how to enjoy the finer things of bdsm
Hermoine (62) CD / Trans Bisexual CD / Trans
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I love to be made to push my boundaries in anyway that helps you in becoming a better, Master, Mistress, submissive,
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Hemsworth
My girl loves big cock punding her hard
lroys845 (23, 23) Straight Male, Straight Female
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I like to share my girl with big dick men and she loves it too she loves monster cock and loves to be gangbanged and tied up and blindfolded message me for a meet also open to meet..
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Rotherham
Easy going and calm honest respectful
jdfecehegeccejbh (34) Straight Female
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Hey hey , I am sunny Julia always with a positive and a smile ahahah. although my life is not so colorful and joyful, I still always try to remain the kindest and most positive per..
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Sheffield
Hi I'm new to this but I would like to try if you message me we can chat an get to know some stuffI'm also a switch
BB_B05 (18) Bicurious Male
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  • Roleplay
  • Sub
  • Switch
If you chat to me we can see what happens during it
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Doncaster
uhh,hi. i’m looking for a dom to satisfy all my needs : )
gracce_x (20) Straight Female
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uh, i’m 19. i’m 4’11 if that’s helps ahaha i’m a sub and a brat :)
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Sheffield
Experienced sub looking for serious Dominant/Top for long term and regular servitude.
Debsub (53) CD / Trans Other CD / Trans
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Not interested in any commercial / pay-to-play, fin arrangement... real only. Subbie, Experienced in real time, previously collared and served couples and singles, any gender or ..
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Sheffield
Give your thought a Ravishing thoughts and let it roll back at you xx
GodestOlivialthr (43) Straight Female
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Blessings are those things we secretly admire and wish to have them done but it takes acceptance turn right and let's kick it x
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Doncaster
Kind friendly guy looking for fun
kinkyfunadam (40) Straight Male
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Hi i'm Adam, 40. Looking for someone for regular fun.
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Rotherham
Hello I'm Joyce. . divorced for 4 years and I have a son.
Joyce (36) Straight Female
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Hello I'm Joyce..divorced for 4 years and I have a daughter. I'm a Teacher , a very honest and caring woman. I'm looking for something that would last...From having meaningful conv..
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Sheffield
PreOp Transgender Male to Femal Woman
TransEmma1990 (34) CD / Trans Bisexual CD / Trans
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  • Sub
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Omg I really have to put a minimum of 50 characters when I really don't know what I want tonput here yet.... this will do for now
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Sheffield
Hot and horny classy lady here waiting to dominate you filthy lot!
PassionateProfessorigeihc (49) Straight Female
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I get my kicks from doing whatever you like….with certain limits!!
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Staincross
Dom Bull looking for cuckold couple for long term cuckolding
MasterLecutus (52) Straight Male
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  • CBT
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  • Cuckold
  • Dom
  • Electro-Play
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Like to have wife dress to tease and please, wife open minded for sexual fun in/outdoor. Like to cage cucks cock even sisdify them. Cuck.to do clean up duties. Move cuck out of mar..
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Mexborough
Will fill this in as we go, but I'm wanting to explore this lifestyle a little more.
CurvyD_x (33) Straight Female
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  • Spanking / Whipping
  • Sub
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Will fill this in shortly to see if this website is going to give me what I am looking for. In the meantime, enjoy the view. ;)
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Sheffield
Sane, eloquent trans woman seeking dominants to help me go deeper into my submission. I am polyamorous. I have a partner. She's aware I'm looking. She won't be involved in this. I'm s geek. Love D&D, video games and films. I look forward to speaking to
SubTransLady (31) CD / Trans Straight Male
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  • First Time Encounter
  • Friends With Benefits
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  • Pegging
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  • Sub
I like being naked whilst your dressed. I like being on the floor whilst your on the furniture. I like impact play, restraint and feet worship. I like to drink your urine... I..
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Sheffield
’I’m Chloe, a trans woman seeking a dominant partner who is interested in guiding me through my submissive desires. While I’m relatively new to this dynamic, my eagerness to learn and please is limitless.
Chloe88 (35) Straight Female
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  • Collaring
  • Roleplay
  • Sub
  • suspenders
the feeling of being completely taken by a dominant partner who values trust, respect, and mutual satisfaction as much as I do. I relish the tension that builds when you take contr..
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Sheffield
Normal guy looking who wants to give you pleasure. Happy to kiss, smell, lick your feet and not only if you want.. open minded.
DonMagic82 (42) Straight Male
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Giving pleasure to woman. I like to kiss and worshipping. I can try to satisfy you by kissing foots or give you oral or massage. I am open minded i like see women geting pleasure.
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Doncaster