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Hardcore spanking - flogging and caning

The problem with enjoying hardcore spanking too much is that your hand eventually gets tired and sore. The BDSM Fortunately has invented other variations of this kinky activity where no hands are required but you use other tools like whips, spoons and wooden paddles. The fun in punishment lies in finding the right tools for the job – there are many customized shops that will help you out with different tails, lengths, material and even curves

There are even terms for the different ways to spank a person. Flogging means spanking someone with a BDSM invention called a flogger. It looks like a whip but is essentially different, with a flat tail and it is not designed to break skin. Caning is more intense as a cane produces a real intense sensation and you feel pain from the actual strike and a second wave of pain a few seconds later.

spanking How does this kinky activity fit into the bondage lifestyle? Remember the letter "D" in the acronym BDSM? It stands for Discipline and it definitely involves flogging, caning, fisting and spanking. Another aspect of this lifestyle is heightening your sensations like through bodily pain that has a direct effect on the amount of adrenalin and endorphins your body produces. For the best experience you should build up your session and start slowly and then gradually increase the intensity. It helps to have a certain rhythm. Not everyone can withstand pain and then you may enjoy lighter variations of spanking that will feel more like a massage. People will describe hardcore spanking as feeling 'stingy', 'thuddy' a 'two-wave' sensation or a 'cosmic' experience.

Sexy punishment: fisting, discipline, spanking

The BDSM community is adamant that the spanking discipline is a sexy punishment. The buttock’s is considered as one of the most erotic body parts and you can get a nice thrill from the physical buss and the naughty connotation of the act. A lot of people even get orgasms as they can be manually stimulated at the same time as spanking. The best place to spank someone is on the top part of their buttocks and not in the lower region near the tights or on the shoulder blades.

Fisting may not be considered as a sexy act but definitely an advanced form of sex play. It involves inserting your hand into your sex partners' anus or vagina. A lot of patience and lubricant is involved to get it right and to not cause too much pain.